Why I stopped

 

I didn’t watch last night’s Veep debate.  I didn’t watch the Presidential debate last week, either, and I don’t plan on watching the next two.

 

 

Though I am nowhere near as adorable as this kitteh, I don’t feel guilty.

I like to think of myself as a model of civic engagement, but the truth is I’m burned out.  I know who’s getting my vote, and so do you (Him. Her. Him. Her. Him. No. No).

Skipping the debates doesn’t make me ignorant about the issues at stake in the election. Quite the contrary!  As every idiot with a wi-fi enabled laptop and smartphone knows, we are never wanting for information.  The amount of information, and the volume and tenor of that information, can be totally crazy-making.

When our kids near tantrum stage for not achieving the high scores of their dreams on any of our four Just Dance games, we say this: “If it’s not fun anymore, stop.”  Sometimes this dose of reality works.  Sometimes, of course, there is an explosion of tears and curses and AA batteries as the Wii-mote hits the wall.

The Romney-Ryan philosophy of governing makes me ill.  They are not fun, and I can no longer watch them.

Happily, they inspire jokes and memes that are hysterical.  I love the @FiredBigBird Twitter feed and the P90X caption contests.  Thanks to social media, the debates can be GIFed into a form that does not make me want to scream and destroy my household possessions.  That’s FUN we can believe in!

Speaking of social media, this Audre Lorde quote has been making the rounds among my connected friends and social justice allies lately, which proves that I’m not the only one experiencing severe political burnout:

 

 

Dear readers, don’t forget to take care of yourself, too. Remember:

If it’s not fun anymore, stop.

If it IS fun, repost it on my Facebook and Twitter so I know about it!

 

 

3 Responses to “Why I stopped”

  1. Anne G. Sabo says:

    Good for you, Shannon!

  2. Ashley says:

    I like to think of myself as a model of civic engagement, but the truth is I’m burned out. I know who’s getting my vote, and so do you

    YES! Finally, someone said exactly what I was thinking! Thank you!!

  3. deb says:

    yes. i am soooo burnt out. i think it’s exhausting because the race is so close. living every day with the possibility that Romney could possibly win, or get close enough that republican suppression efforts could matter, just makes me ill. I’m dreading another “too close to call” election. I obsessed over the details of bush/gore. i don’t want to go through that again.

    we shall see..

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